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Dating Advice 10 ways to attract the man of your dreams (womansday) We all dream of finding the man of our dreams and sometimes, one gets impatient waiting for him to come along. Now you do not need to wait idly, follow these 10 tips to help you Believe it or not, finding the right man starts with...you guessed it.  1. Know what you want You’d better know what you want or you just might get a slew of those you don’t want. Being confident in your needs and wants is of the utmost importance. You need to have him down to a science, know every single little detail, know his chemical makeup and formula, basically, you’d better be sure you know the type of man you want. Don’t be timid on this on out a solid, strong intention. Write down a list of things you want and even the things you don’t want in a man. You want the universe to bring you what you ask for, period. In order to do that, you must be very clear regarding the image of your dreamboat. You’re building a man here, so make him the

  You can still have your dream wedding if your budget is tight Many young people have gotten engaged this period and plan to get married. Planning a wedding isn't easy, you have a lot to consider. So, what should be on your wedding list? Clothes for the traditional, court and white wedding. Plus, shoes and bags and jewellery for the bride to be. The cost of the wedding venue Food and drinks for the guests (wedding cake inclusive) Photographer and videographer Bride price to be bought by the man Makeup for the bride DJ, live band or entertainment Wedding decorations The way things are right now with rising inflation and a harsh economy; you need to be shrewd with your budget; 1. Buy your wedding outfits first You need to look your best on that day. You do not want to 'manage' your outfits. Even if no one eats, you must look your best. You do not have to spend so much to look good. Going to the market to buy a suit for the groom-to-be is no problem if it fits. The issue is w

Dating Advice 10 ways to attract the man of your dreams (womansday) We all dream of finding the man of our dreams and sometimes, one gets impatient waiting for him to come along. Now you do not need to wait idly, follow these 10 tips to help you Believe it or not, finding the right man starts with...you guessed it.  1. Know what you want You’d better know what you want or you just might get a slew of those you don’t want. Being confident in your needs and wants is of the utmost importance. You need to have him down to a science, know every single little detail, know his chemical makeup and formula, basically, you’d better be sure you know the type of man you want. Don’t be timid on this on out a solid, strong intention. Write down a list of things you want and even the things you don’t want in a man. You want the universe to bring you what you ask for, period. In order to do that, you must be very clear regarding the image of your dreamboat. You’re building a man here, so make him the

  How to keep your man glued to you (Relationship advice for women) Only hard work, commitment and willingness to learn, unlearn and relearn your partner, can make your relationship successful. That's why in this article, we'll be sharing a few pointers on how to rekindle the fire of pure romance in your relationship. So ladies, whether you’re looking to try out a new romantic relationship or make an already existing one strong, this article is just for you. So please, pay attention to the following tips! 1. Appreciate him Every human wants to be appreciated by their partner but sadly, most men don’t get half of the care they give out in relationships. Your man wants to feel loved and appreciated. Thank him for even the smallest things he does, make him feel important at every chance you get. This is one of the ways to keep him glued to you. 2. Be a good listener Here's a simple truth, Men love women who listen well and provide solutions, they need a shoulder to lean on whe

  Try some Karaoke to have a good time [Popsugar] Are you tired of spending Valentine’s Day in a restaurant? Well, me too. Look out for these ways to enjoy Val’s day. 1. SIP AND PAINT   SIP  AND PAINT IS A FUN AND RELAXING ACTIVITY. YOU ALSO GET TO BOND AND ENJOY A GLASS OF WINE WHILE TICKLING YOUR CREATIVE JUICES. 2. Go kayaking Have you ever tried couple’s kayaking? Then, Valentine’s Day is a great time to try it. 3. Go for a couple’s massage In high-stress cities like Lagos, Abuja and Port Harcourt having a relaxing day at the spa might be the best thing you both have tried in a while. 4. Stay home and rewatch your favourite movie or series Why add to the number of motorists on the road or get stuck in traffic when you can stay home and cosy up next to each other. 5. Try a new restaurant Have you eaten Chinese food before? Try it. You might need to make a reservation. 6. Book a room at an expensive hotel You can even go the extra mile and decorate it with petals and candles. Enjoyin

  4 reasons why couples should sleep naked  Improves relationships Sleeping naked promotes intimacy among couples. Close contact with a significant other can massively boost the amount of oxytocin in your brain. This hormone is the neurotransmitter which helps you feel those impulsive good feelings to your other half. Men's fertility A study from the National Institute of Child Health and Development at Stanford University found that men who slept in the nude instead of wearing boxer shorts or briefs had a 25 percent lower rate of damaged DNA in their sperm than men who did wear them. Fertility may decrease as sperm gets overheated. More steamy sex Sex is a great form of exercise and a stress reliever. If you and your partner regularly sleep naked next to each other, the likelihood is that you’ll have more sex than you would when wearing those restrictive PJs. More refreshed mornings Often when you wake up from a night’s sleep in your preferred form of pajamas, you feel clammy and

  6 signs you're not ready to get married It's a commitment that should not be taken lightly. Marriage is supposed to be for life, and it's something that should only happen l when both parties are ready. Here are 10 signs that you're not ready to get married. 1. You're not ready to give up your single lifestyle: When you've stayed single for years, and have grown into your routines and lifestyle, it's hard to give all that up. Marriage means sharing your life with someone else, and that can be scary if you're not ready for it. If you're not ready to let go of your independence, then marriage is definitely not for you. You need to be prepared to share everything with your partner- including your time and space. 2. You're not comfortable being someone's partner: Marriage means being someone's partner for life. That can be a daunting task if you're not used to it, especially if you always put yourself first. If you're not ready to t

  Is it a good idea to date your best friend? Most times, you get these feelings unexpectedly, and you won’t be able to track when or how it started. You often feel like spending more time with them and get jealous when they spend time with the opposite gender. Developing feelings for your best friend is challenging; you’ll be scared of them not feeling the same way and wanting to remain just friends. However, if you manage to pull it off, your relationship will blossom because of how well you both understand each other. Below are some things you should consider before dating your best friend. Is it a good idea? It is not wrong to date your friend because all relationships start as friendships. In addition, your history as friends will positively influence the relationship because you’ll know their likes and dislikes. Finally, your trust in each other will also facilitate a healthy relationship. How long should you remain friends before dating? Although it’s essential to be friends bef