My Suggestion,win your Man to your self forever check this tips

 

How to keep your man glued to you (Relationship advice for women)

Only hard work, commitment and willingness to learn, unlearn and relearn your partner, can make your relationship successful.

That's why in this article, we'll be sharing a few pointers on how to rekindle the fire of pure romance in your relationship.

So ladies, whether you’re looking to try out a new romantic relationship or make an already existing one strong, this article is just for you.

So please, pay attention to the following tips!

1. Appreciate him

Every human wants to be appreciated by their partner but sadly, most men don’t get half of the care they give out in relationships. Your man wants to feel loved and appreciated. Thank him for even the smallest things he does, make him feel important at every chance you get. This is one of the ways to keep him glued to you.

2. Be a good listener

Here's a simple truth, Men love women who listen well and provide solutions, they need a shoulder to lean on when they’re down, so forget all the macho façade they put up. Be that woman who he desires to open up to. Being a good listener will help you both connect mentally and emotionally.

3. Be vulnerable

Vulnerability involves being open to your partner. It means sharing your emotions - fears, weaknesses - and information with your partner. It might not seem like a big deal at first but this vulnerability will make him trust you and become more comfortable around you.

4. Respect

Demanding respect from your partner is right but you can’t have what you don’t dish out. Do you have a high regard for his opinion, perspective and decisions? Do you consult him when you want to make decisions? Are you rude to him?

There's a cliche that goes "respect is reciprocal." Being respectful to your man will attract respect and kind treatment from him too.

5. Make time out

One of the best ways of showing a man you value him is by making time out for him. See, women love attention a lot but men love it too. Give him attention, plan dates and trips. Men adore women who make time out for them.

6. Give Him Space

Yes, I know I said you should make time out for him but sis, don't choke him with it. Men love their privacy. Sometimes, they want to be left alone to enjoy their solitude, so try not to be too clingy. A healthy balance is required.

My Suggestion,The unusual on Val day is important

 

Try some Karaoke to have a good time [Popsugar]

Are you tired of spending Valentine’s Day in a restaurant? Well, me too. Look out for these ways to enjoy Val’s day.

1. SIP AND PAINT  
SIP AND PAINT IS A FUN AND RELAXING ACTIVITY. YOU ALSO GET TO BOND AND ENJOY A GLASS OF WINE WHILE TICKLING YOUR CREATIVE JUICES.

2. Go kayaking

Have you ever tried couple’s kayaking? Then, Valentine’s Day is a great time to try it.

3. Go for a couple’s massage

In high-stress cities like Lagos, Abuja and Port Harcourt having a relaxing day at the spa might be the best thing you both have tried in a while.

4. Stay home and rewatch your favourite movie or series

Why add to the number of motorists on the road or get stuck in traffic when you can stay home and cosy up next to each other.

5. Try a new restaurant

Have you eaten Chinese food before? Try it. You might need to make a reservation.

6. Book a room at an expensive hotel

You can even go the extra mile and decorate it with petals and candles. Enjoying your night at a fancy hotel after a great meal is another great way to spend Valentine’s Day.

7. Make a fancy dinner for your partner

Who cooks less? Then, it will be a pleasant surprise to see you cooking. Make sure you do not burn down the kitchen and plan ahead!

8. Play karaoke

Karaoke is always a fun way to enjoy yourself if the goal is fun and not necessarily romance.

9. Go Salsa dancing

Salsa is an intimate and fun dance between couples, let go of the shyness and dance.

10. Spend the evening at the beach

The beach hits different at night and if you have not experienced it, you should try it on Valentine’s Day.

My Suggestion,why is Good for partner/couples to sleep with clothes

 

4 reasons why couples should sleep naked

•  Improves relationships

Sleeping naked promotes intimacy among couples. Close contact with a significant other can massively boost the amount of oxytocin in your brain. This hormone is the neurotransmitter which helps you feel those impulsive good feelings to your other half.

• Men's fertility

A study from the National Institute of Child Health and Development at Stanford University found that men who slept in the nude instead of wearing boxer shorts or briefs had a 25 percent lower rate of damaged DNA in their sperm than men who did wear them. Fertility may decrease as sperm gets overheated.

• More steamy sex

Sex is a great form of exercise and a stress reliever. If you and your partner regularly sleep naked next to each other, the likelihood is that you’ll have more sex than you would when wearing those restrictive PJs.

• More refreshed mornings

Often when you wake up from a night’s sleep in your preferred form of pajamas, you feel clammy and sticky from sweating during the night. Reserve the pajamas for those menstrual days.

My Suggestion,tips to spices up love making

 

Let shower sex spice things up a little [GettyImages]

Shower sex is the type of intercourse that happens in the shower. If you’ve watched many Hollywood movies, you should know of steamy shower sex scenes.

Have you ever wondered how to do it without hurting yourself? Well, if you have, I have some tips for you.

Have an actual shower

You might want to do this if you have a shower and not with a bucket and bowl.

Also, the water needs to be lukewarm, if it’s too cold, you’ll be shivering. Can you engage in shower sex with a bucket and bowl? Maybe, but it is much better with an actual shower.

Use less soap

The point of shower sex isn’t to scrub your bodies till they are sparkling clean.

Take it easy on the soap or shower gel, do not lather up so much. Lather can cause either of you to slip.

Also, if the bar of soap drops, pick it up immediately, you do not want to fall because of it.

Penetration isn’t the goal

Of course, penetration can happen in the shower, several styles can work, but that isn’t the goal.

It is much better to engage in foreplay (like oral sex) and then carry the action somewhere else, but if you must stay in the shower at least one of you should have both feet firmly to the ground, be seated properly or have their backs to the wall.

Do not lean on anything that can make you slip easily.

Use a shower mat

For proper balance use a shower mat, you can easily slip, a shower mat will keep you properly grounded.

Bath each other

Touching bodies is a sure way to create some sensuality and keep the intimacy flowing.

My Suggestion,signs she/he is not ready for marriage

 

6 signs you're not ready to get married

It's a commitment that should not be taken lightly. Marriage is supposed to be for life, and it's something that should only happen l when both parties are ready. Here are 10 signs that you're not ready to get married.

1. You're not ready to give up your single lifestyle:

When you've stayed single for years, and have grown into your routines and lifestyle, it's hard to give all that up. Marriage means sharing your life with someone else, and that can be scary if you're not ready for it.

If you're not ready to let go of your independence, then marriage is definitely not for you. You need to be prepared to share everything with your partner- including your time and space.

2. You're not comfortable being someone's partner:

Marriage means being someone's partner for life. That can be a daunting task if you're not used to it, especially if you always put yourself first. If you're not ready to take on that responsibility, then marriage is definitely not for you.

You need to be prepared to handle anything and everything your partner throws at you. You should also be comfortable with giving as much as time and energy as your partner gives you.

3. You don't think you're good enough for marriage:

Marriage is a lifetime commitment. If you don't think you're good enough for marriage, then you definitely shouldn't get married. This means that you have low self-esteem and don't think you deserve to be happy.

You need to be confident in yourself and your relationship before getting married, of not , you could watch your marriage crumble. You should also believe that your partner is the best thing that's ever happened to you.

4. You don't want to change your relationship status on Facebook:

As singles, we like to let the world know that we are on the market. One way of doing that is by keeping our relationship status on social media as 'single'. If you still desire that thrill of a random person going through your page, and messaging you out of nowhere, then believe me, you're far from ready to settle for one partner.

Rather, focus on getting to know yourself better and working on your relationship before making it Facebook official.

5. You're not sure if you believe in marriage:

I've heard many young Nigerian girls say 'marriage na scam'. If that's the mentality of some members of this generation, then how can they be ready to get married? Marriage is a sacred institution that should not be taken lightly. If you're unsure about whether or not you believe in it, then how can you go into it wholeheartedly?

You need to have faith in the institution of marriage if you're going to make that commitment. You need to believe that marriage comes with responsibilities, which come with peace and pride and joy when fulfilled.

6. You don't want to deal with the stress of a wedding:

Weddings are undoubtedly very stressful to plan and carry out. Many people keep putting off finding meaningful relationships because they can't picture the perfect wedding for themselves. Please, do yourself a favour and plan your wedding the way it suits you.

Not everyone needs to have a flashy ceremony- you could make it a very small gathering of really genuine friends, who truly care about your happiness. But don't let the stress behind a huge wedding ceremony scare you away from marriage

My Suggestion,is best to date your best friend

 

Is it a good idea to date your best friend?

Most times, you get these feelings unexpectedly, and you won’t be able to track when or how it started. You often feel like spending more time with them and get jealous when they spend time with the opposite gender.

Developing feelings for your best friend is challenging; you’ll be scared of them not feeling the same way and wanting to remain just friends. However, if you manage to pull it off, your relationship will blossom because of how well you both understand each other. Below are some things you should consider before dating your best friend.

Is it a good idea?

It is not wrong to date your friend because all relationships start as friendships. In addition, your history as friends will positively influence the relationship because you’ll know their likes and dislikes. Finally, your trust in each other will also facilitate a healthy relationship.

How long should you remain friends before dating?

Although it’s essential to be friends before going into a relationship, there is no specific friendship timeframe. The more you spend time with them, the more you’ll get to know them, so what’s important is understanding each other.

Don’t enter the friendship with the sole aim of developing a relationship because you’ll analyze their characteristics more to decide if they’re a good fit, and that can make the friendship short-lived.

How to transition from friendship to dating

Transitioning from friends to lovers can be fast and natural. Of course, it begins with you catching feelings for them and confessing these feelings. After you tell them how you feel, they might not immediately answer you. However, watch out for subtle signs that show that they feel the same way.

If the love is unrequited, you don’t have to blame them or yourself for anything. Instead, be grateful that you found out on time instead of chasing a lost cause. Finally, talk to them to know if you can remain friends and if you can’t; it’s best you part ways.

My Suggestion,seven ways to move on after breakup

 

possible ways to forget your ex

It could leave your soul empty, leave you feeling lonely, unloved and most times depressed or suicidal.

The only way out of this depressing cage is to break free, you just have to move on. Of course, forgetting these memories requires time, deliberate action and a great deal of courage.

The fact that you're reading this indicates that you're ready to put the suffering behind you and move on. You should undergo a mind cleansing therapy to help you get out of this broken period. So, here are seven excellent suggestions to assist you in moving on.

1. Be independent

Invest in yourself and become productive. Learn to do things for yourself, look for a job and take care of your needs. Becoming a self dependent person will help you forget your ex especially if you’re so used to them doing things for you. Working hard will help take your mind off them.

Remember the saying about an idle mind? Well, get busy, look for an activity and engage yourself in it.

2. Cut off all communication

Don't fall into the trap of "she's my ex but we're still friends." It's not for everyone and it's definitely not good for your mental health.

Avoiding any form of contact with your ex or their friends/family members, is a courageous but right step to take. If you want to move on, then no texting, no calling or secret meet ups. Avoid them.

3. No stalking

Stay off their social media pages and stop checking them out through their friends' pages either. As a matter of fact, I suggest blocking or deleting them for a while. Stalking your ex will keep you stuck and cause you to relive the trauma day-in-day-out.

4. Rekindle or find a new passion

Being in a relationship for too long can make you drift away from things you love doing. One of the best ways to forget your ex is by looking out for something you loved doing, or get a new hobby or interest. You’ll end up finding new ways to have fun and become happier.

5. Hang out more

Honor social invitations, invest in your social life. It will help you forget your break up experience and give you fresh opportunities to meet new people and who knows, you just might meet a new love interest.

6. Avoid mutual meetings

Attending meetings where mutual friends (friends of your ex) are, is likely to cause fresh pains and bring back memories you'd rather forget. If you are certain you want to move on, then consider avoiding social events of your ex’s friends for a while.

7. Share with someone

Try talking to someone about how you feel concerning the break-up; it will help you feel less depressed and allow you to accept affection from other people in your life. Also, strive to form new relationships with your friends and family.

Whatever you do, do not allow this heartbreak or mistake stop you from living and experiencing love again. There are many people out there who would give anything for someone like you.